When have you felt the most SEEN & HEARD in your life?
And when have you really felt UNSEEN or UNHEARD?
“I think that those who try to make you feel less than who you are… that is the greatest evil.ā – Mr. Rogers
These past few weeks I’ve had some amazing conversations about this concept of being SEEN & HEARD. There have been some very dark times in my life when I haven’t been seen and I don’t know if there’s anything more frustrating / painful. Luckily, for most of my life, I’ve had unbelievable people in my life who have seen my potential… even waaaaaay beyond what I’ve seen in myself.
My hope for you is that YOU would find a way to be seen. Part of what makes my job as a DEATH coach (watch the video if you haven’t yet) so fulfilling is that I get to listen to people… really listen. Like, listen to what they’re ACTUALLY saying / wanting / needing. In my coach training we are trained in the 3 levels of listening… and part of this is TRULY being heard and seen. You can speak something with your words but what is your HEART saying?
In this Song & Rants I talk a bit about this topic as well as share a brand new song I wrote Aug. 22, 2022 about being seen & heard and what it does when someone actually sees you… this song is called “YOURS”.
If you are interested in some coaching around this topic, feel free to reach out to me here: https://nicocoaching.com
LYRICS TO “YOURS”
Aug. 22, 2022
What if I had nothing to hide
What if you threw your armour to the side
We would be all that weāre supposed to be
We would watch our souls and spirits fly
CHORUS:
If you would hear me
I would be a little puddle on the floor
If youād believe me
I would welcome you to walk on through my door
If you would see me
I would let you have my heart and even more, even more
I would be yours
Shame – has kept this castle closed
Iām a queen Ā but who will ever know?
Iāve lived here so longĀ canāt even find my way out
But I know this fragile heart was meant to show
If you would hear me
Iād melt into a puddle on the floor
If youād believe me
I would welcome you into my castle door
If you would see me
I would let you have my heart and even more, even more
I would be yours
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