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Nico Boesten, CPCC | Coach

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I punched a guy in the back and almost drove off a cliff

October 2, 20261 Comment

You know how everyone has these “PARTS” to them. Or you could say “SIDES”… like Jeckyll & Hyde. You can be nice one minute and then something triggers you and all of a sudden you turn into a nasty … [Read more...] about I punched a guy in the back and almost drove off a cliff

Tagged With: Coaching, depression, Desperation, hope, Kelowna, Lifecoach, reaction, suicide, tools, Tricks

How AI is dumb but can also change your life

September 22, 2026Leave a Comment

Well, you gotta be living under a rock garden to not be hearing about all of the ways that AI is changing the way everyone (OK, not EVERYone) does stuff. I’ve even be hearing how some people (even … [Read more...] about How AI is dumb but can also change your life

Tagged With: AI, Kelowna, Kelowna Life Coach, Life change, life coaching, Lifecoach, Transformation

Light, Shadow, Loss, & Choice

September 21, 2026Leave a Comment

Here's a podcast I did a little while ago titled "Light, Shadow, Loss & Choice"... sharing some tender lessons and influences provided by the brilliant light and wounded darkness contained in the … [Read more...] about Light, Shadow, Loss, & Choice

Tagged With: choice, Fear, healing, light, Loss, Pain, Podcast, shadow

Beauty from ashes

September 1, 2026Leave a Comment

I recently had one of the most absolutely important days of my life. Giving my daughter away. Now, I just learned this recently that apparently at a lot of weddings the bride will have a private … [Read more...] about Beauty from ashes

Tagged With: beauty, bride, Grief, Loss, marriage, Pain, wedding

New tune release “RIVER”

April 15, 2026Leave a Comment

Alas, I offer you my latest recording of "RIVER"... a song written about a woman I loved… River by NICO   This was partially inspired by Esther Perel and her research on relationships … [Read more...] about New tune release “RIVER”

Tagged With: breakups, choosing a partner, healing, Kelowna, relationships, Singer songwriter

UNstuck | finding hope in loss with Andrew Allen PT 6/6

March 9, 2026Leave a Comment

This is part 6/6 of a series I produced called "UNstuck | finding hope in loss" where I interviewed my buddy and multi-platinum singer-songwriter Andrew Allen. He is an artist and keynote speaker … [Read more...] about UNstuck | finding hope in loss with Andrew Allen PT 6/6

Tagged With: Andrew Allen, healing, hope, Kelowna, keynote speaker, life coaching, Lifecoach, musician, Nico Boesten, relationships, Storyhive, Telus, UNstuck

UNstuck | finding hope in loss with Tess McMechan PT 5/6

March 5, 2026Leave a Comment

Tess McMechan is a Kelowna-based Certified Somatic and Developmental Trauma Practitioner who helps people break free from the grip of limiting beliefs shaped by trauma - beliefs that were once … [Read more...] about UNstuck | finding hope in loss with Tess McMechan PT 5/6

Tagged With: chronic, Coaching, disease, heal, healing, Kelowna, Lifecoach, Nico Boesten, practitioner, Tess McMechan, therapy, trauma, UNstuck

UNstuck | finding hope in loss with Mike Shaw PT 4/6

February 26, 2026Leave a Comment

Mike Shaw is truly a legend. A speaker, author, coach, therapist, athlete, (among many other things) Mike lives in the Kelowna area and tells his story of being a professional skiier where, in a … [Read more...] about UNstuck | finding hope in loss with Mike Shaw PT 4/6

Tagged With: Coaching, heal, healing, injury, Kelowna, life coach, Mike Shaw, mindset, Nico Boesten, Olympics, paralyzed, professional skiing, skiing, UNstuck

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